Stuff

My life situation changed a couple of years ago and, malgré moi, I left my home to live in a small apartment. My children had already left, so the house was too big for two, or one, anyways. Having lived abroad for many years, I am used to living with “less”. I find that American society revolves around consumerism. Things are changing in Europe, but people are still, in general, less materialistic than most Americans. I highly dislike TV commercials and constant advertising. I have given up my old car and am giving myself 6 months to see how I cope with public transportation and asking friends for rides. So far, one month in, it is working out fine. I’m saving a lot of money and am not spewing exhaust into the atmosphere. Public transportation is wonderful in some places, but is lacking elsewhere. I can walk to the market square and enjoy buying fresh bread and produce. I don’t buy too much and avoid wasting food.

Having limited space in my present home, I have fewer things. I have noticed that my sons have less stuff than I did when I was their age. They stream music, movies and books and don’t have piles of old books lying around like I do. I still prefer “real” books, but have become friendly with my Kindle that was a gift from my eldest son.

My mother is a terrible hoarder. I have vowed to myself and my sons that I will not leave them tons of stuff like she will one day leave my two brothers and I. I actually dread thinking about the time it will take to go through her house. So much stuff…
I am definitely content with less. In fact, I’m learning how free it feels to possess less stuff.

— MCW